planned Proton replacement
from inlandempire@jlai.lu to privacy@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 16:33
https://jlai.lu/post/45686870

I’ve cancelled my subscription yesterday, conveniently it was about to renew at the end of the week, so I have a few days to migrate from Proton, here’s what I’m thinking of, but I’d love to hear what other people are switching to

#privacy

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TheAgeOfSuperboredom@lemmy.ca on 03 Nov 16:37 next collapse

I’ve been using KeePassXC with Syncthing for years and it’s been great as a password manager for myself. But I don’t need to share those credentials with anyone.

buttmasterflex@piefed.social on 03 Nov 16:56 next collapse

Same, plus a yubikey for 2FA

TwiddleTwaddle@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 03 Nov 17:04 next collapse

Aegis is my chosen 2FA. never have been convinced on hardware keys personally.

buttmasterflex@piefed.social on 03 Nov 17:09 collapse

Fair enough. I like the ease of simply touching it. It’s less of a frustration for when my wife wants to access my password manager

sudoer777@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 05:54 collapse

I’m strongly considering getting a hardware key. Is Yubikey the best choice or are the other options also worth considering?

buttmasterflex@piefed.social on 04 Nov 12:55 next collapse

I bought my yubikey at least 7-8 years ago and then stopped keeping up on comparisons. I honestly have no idea which is the best, because there are varying use cases and standards available. Yubikey works for my use case and threat model, but I have no idea what would be best for yours. I wish I could be more specific for you but also don’t want to give you misleading info.

jollyrogue@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 20:31 collapse

Solokey and Nitrokey are strong alternatives, and the two I’ve been recommended by people who would know.

Solokey is good if Fido is the only thing needed.

Nitrokey has Fido and more. I keep meaning to try the other features, but haven’t gotten around to it.

standarduser@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 03 Nov 19:02 next collapse

Does keepass have a reputable browser extension or is the application itself all that’s used? I think that’s what moved me off Keepass initially after using it for like six years and then moving to BitWarden a few years ago

TheAgeOfSuperboredom@lemmy.ca on 03 Nov 19:20 collapse

I’m not sure what you mean by reputable, but I’ve been using the official KeePassXC extension.

ComradePedro@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 00:04 collapse

I’ve tried that exact setup but Syncthing kept not detecting changes or creating conflicts… So I’m still stuck with Proton Pass :/ (it’s a good password manager, but Andy Yen is being too much of a loser)

birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 03 Nov 16:48 next collapse

For Mailbox there’s also Tuta.

For VPNs you could consider IVPN. It’s Gibraltar-based.

As for document collaboration; Cryptpad.

Bitwarden is US-based; see their site - “Bitwarden Inc. is incorporated in the State of Delaware in the United States of America. 8bit Solutions LLC is wholly owned by Bitwarden Inc.”. That said, it’s OSS and can be hosted locally.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 03 Nov 16:52 collapse

Ill check out ivpn, thanks for the tip!

Sanctus@anarchist.nexus on 03 Nov 16:53 next collapse

Is it just me or is the room spinning faster?

Troy00@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 16:53 next collapse

I use Aliasvault as Passwordmanager and Riseup VPN. They are great!

MrSulu@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 16:54 next collapse

This perfectly sums up my situation. I’m currently trialing a free Tuta mail account and a Mailfence account (freeee)

Waiting for expert reviews of the alternative VPN options.

Nelots@piefed.zip on 03 Nov 17:02 next collapse

I wouldn’t trust Bitwarden anymore. I don’t believe they’ve done anything bad just yet, but they recently sold out to a private equity firm and quite literally removed “transparency” from their company values. KeePassXC is your friend.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 03 Nov 17:06 next collapse

Ahh too bad then I’ll switch to Keepass yeah

Zagorath@aussie.zone on 03 Nov 17:07 next collapse

quite literally removed “transparency” from their company values

No they didnt. Why do people keep making up this bullshit?

Nelots@piefed.zip on 03 Nov 17:15 collapse

Because of this.

“Bitwarden company values spell the word “GRIT,” and stand for:

  • Gratitude
  • Responsibility
  • Innovation
  • Trust”

It used to say Inclusion and Transparency, before they sold out.

StumblingWasabi@lemmy.today on 03 Nov 19:16 next collapse

But they replaced transparency with “trust” so surely we can trust them right? /s

uuj8za@piefed.social on 04 Nov 00:33 collapse

I don’t trust bitwarden. This was very annoying: https://community.bitwarden.com/t/copying-values-brings-up-remote-desktop-window/100351/20

They claimed copying on Linux was only possible via screensharing despite literally every other app being able to copy text without that. The thread ends with “it’s linux’s fault bro” and yet the issue seems to have been fixed since then.

WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com on 03 Nov 17:19 next collapse

Been using AirVPN. Just make sure you use the wireguard config, not the tcp openvpn (not sure about the udp openvpn, but people seem to recommend the wireguard option and I accidentally used the tcp openvpn config at first).

Seconding KeypassXC.

Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 03 Nov 18:48 collapse

I got airvpn a few days ago, what’s wrong with openvpn?

WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com on 03 Nov 19:16 collapse

Specific the tcp config. Tcp adds an extra handshake for every transaction, so I was getting like 2.5 Mbps.

Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 03 Nov 20:56 collapse

Thanks, unless I’m checking it wrong I got UDP as the default config. However I noticed my phone load things noticeably slower but dismissed it as expected VPN behavior. Did you somehow check for the handshakes or is it just a knowledge you have about TCP? Mind you I barely know anything about networking.

WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com on 03 Nov 21:30 collapse

I downloaded the config files for openvpn udp, tcp, and wireguard udp and for some reason actually used the tcp one instead of just having it around as a backup. AirVPN even says only to use it as a backup if UDP is causing issues on the config generator page. Entirely an unforced user error.

communism@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 17:26 next collapse

IVPN or AirVPN (depending on whether or not you need port-forwarding) is my VPN recommendation.

grue@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 17:51 next collapse

ELI5 why Mailbox.org instead of Tuta?

gianni@lemmy.ca on 03 Nov 18:02 next collapse

What are all of you people using VPNs for?

WolfLink@sh.itjust.works on 03 Nov 18:11 collapse

Trying to avoid tracking if only a little bit, including by my ISP.

Using public unencrypted WiFi, like what you find at an airport or McDonald’s.

eldavi@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 18:15 next collapse

this community used to be full of proton fanboys – i’m genuinely surprised that this hasn’t been downvoted into oblivion because of it.

iamthetot@piefed.ca on 03 Nov 18:42 next collapse

Proton has had very bad press past week. In case you missed it, an article came out exposing an internal work culture that very much did not match up with what customers were being sold, including potentially sidelining security to prioritize speed of development of new features.

eldavi@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 18:59 collapse

you’re preaching to the choir – i stopped trusting them when their ceo needlessly voiced support for ttrump and i shared my comment because i’ve been experiencing the downvotes/anger from the proton brigade on lemmy for it.

krolden@lemmy.ml on 06 Nov 16:13 collapse

Why would you ever trust any company

wizblizz@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 19:36 collapse

Probably because Proton just went full Ai enshittification.

eldavi@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 00:58 collapse

I guess it’s nice to see the anti-AI hysteria being used for something constructive :p

Dryad@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 18:35 next collapse

I’m trying out a few CPNs on iOS. This far Windscribe is good with a 10gb free limit. Psiphon has been good too. I have Orbot to try next for VPN over TOR.

mp3@lemmy.ca on 03 Nov 18:38 next collapse

I don’t know if I’d still suggest Bitwarden with the dual-licensing drama from not too long ago and the new CEO.

blog.ppb1701.com/the-quiet-renovation-at-bitwarde…

Shortstack@reddthat.com on 03 Nov 18:38 next collapse

Bitwarden is pivoting towards the same enshittification path as everything else, so that’s not gonna be a good long term for a password manager. They hired a new ceo whose only noteworthy experience is prepping companies for mergers and acquisitions, and briefly removed messaging on their website about always having a free tier which they reinstated after backlash. All signs point to a sinking ship, imo.

I don’t have the answer for what to use instead since I’m still a paid subscriber with them, but I’m looking around. Probably keepassxc but I don’t know enough to host and sync my own.

AHemlocksLie@lemmy.zip on 03 Nov 19:50 next collapse

I don’t think Keepass does syncing. I just leave the database in my Nextcloud sync folder on my desktop, and I can always pull the latest version to my phone. It’d be a bit more annoying if I routinely added new entries from my phone since Android won’t let the NC app maintain bidirectional sync, but I pretty much always do it from my desktop, so the workflow is fine for me personally. If you do it on your phone, you can upload the changed version, but I think you’d have to do it manually, so not a great flow, but if it’s a rarity, not too big a deal to me.

freddo@lemmy.zip on 03 Nov 20:05 next collapse

Vaultwarden is a great alternative.

lemmyvore@feddit.nl on 03 Nov 21:50 next collapse

AFAIK the concept behind keepassxc is that it’s an encrypted .kdbx file that you sync yourself among your devices by any means you can. There are official apps for Windows/Linux/Mac, browser extensions for Firefox/Chrome/Chromium/Vivaldi, there’s integration with ssh-agent, and 3rd-party apps for Android and iOS.

hneerqe@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 23:09 next collapse

KeepassDX on android. Any keepass .kdbx file opener on every OS. .kdbx file saved on a local network shared folder on an always on raspberry pi. Access the folder on all devices, open the file with keepass app.

No sync, no extra sync software, no dangling copies, changes are immediate, decryption happens on device not over the network. Step up to network share over sftp. Tailscale tunnel to access when away from home.

MasterBlaster@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 20:02 next collapse

this is the way.

bonus: put it on your NAS in a file-sync folder.

corey931@lemmy.wtf on 06 Nov 10:14 collapse

Which file opener on iOS?

uuj8za@piefed.social on 04 Nov 00:19 next collapse

Bitwarden is pivoting towards the same enshittification path as everything else

Yeah… I’ve noticed as well…. also interested in a good alternative.

zjti8eit@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 04 Nov 04:43 collapse

Nextcloud passwords. If you don’t want to host yourself you get a free one when you sign up for a friendica account at libranet.de.

user@startrek.website on 06 Nov 12:41 collapse

Yah for now keeping Proton Pass only for that reason. And still on Gmail because I’d tried thrice migrating all to Proton but something always annoyed me.

iamthetot@piefed.ca on 03 Nov 18:44 next collapse

For those of us who do need Drive for cloud storage, any suggestions? I’m looking for around 2tb. Please don’t say self hosted NAS.

ferric_carcinization@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 18:47 next collapse

Out of curiosity, why not self hosted NAS?

I’ve been pretty happy with mine.

iamthetot@piefed.ca on 03 Nov 19:27 collapse

I already manage a lot of self hosted stuff, and this cloud storage is specifically for my crucial off-site backups.

ferric_carcinization@lemmy.ml on 03 Nov 19:46 collapse

Understandable. Sadly, you can’t exactly set up an off-site backup in your living room, no matter how much you want to.

When someone doesn’t want self hosted NAS, it feels like they often just dn’t want to bother with it. While I haven’t used them myself, I’ve heard good things about ready made NAS boxes.

For self built, it has been too hassle free in my experience. I want to tinker more with the NAS part, but it is just too reliable & maintenance free!

While I know that they’re different, the more common reasons for not wanting a NAS just remind me a bit of some “reasons” to not care about digital privacy or security.

myrmidex@belgae.social on 03 Nov 18:49 next collapse

i’ve moved to filen.io for a few years now, no complaints so far.

theherk@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 18:51 next collapse

I haven’t tried it, but there is filen.io which offers 2 TiB for 8.99€/mn.

GMac@feddit.org on 03 Nov 23:17 collapse

Try filen. I put some work stuff there. Though I’m now using it as offsite backup because my self host seafile is what i prefer to use for the day to day

WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 18:48 next collapse

I want to ditch Proton for obvious reasons but I’m really stuck on what VPN to switch to. They all seem to suck in their own special ways.

Opisek@piefed.blahaj.zone on 03 Nov 19:28 next collapse

I’ve been very happy with purelymail

Betinem@feddit.org on 03 Nov 19:33 next collapse

Hey login is a good Password manager and free

brave_lemmywinks@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 19:46 next collapse

I’m tired of keeping a book of grudges everytime a CEO says something. I’ll be waiting for now.

JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca on 03 Nov 20:23 next collapse

Like, it’s my business email, it’s on my cards and my site and pretty much everything else related to the business. Just change all that!?

teoman@lemmygrad.ml on 03 Nov 20:32 next collapse

For the future, it might be worth buying your own domain. Besides looking cool, switching providers is as simple as changing your MX records.

lemmyvore@feddit.nl on 03 Nov 21:55 collapse

Your business email is a @proton.me address?

You mentioned a website, wouldn’t you rather have an address @ your website domain?

JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca on 04 Nov 00:39 collapse

Site is hosted by the accounting software I use, template based and I do no e-commerce.

Proton Mail is free and reasonably secure/not fucking Google, and I don’t computer enough to host my own site.

I cut lawns and maintain gardens, I just need to be reachable.

lemmyvore@feddit.nl on 04 Nov 11:00 collapse

I don’t computer enough to host my own site.

You mean savvy or cost?

If it’s cost, you can have a simple site and email with your own domain for something like $30 a year.

I cut lawns and maintain gardens,

Do you own your rake and gloves or rent/borrow them?

It’s the same thing having a domain. Really basic but essential tool that it makes sense to own it and have no surprises or changes at anybody else’s whim.

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 00:57 collapse

yeah, you know, a security company CEO saying to ignore security. Just sleep on that… what could happen?

freddo@lemmy.zip on 03 Nov 20:05 next collapse

Walt.is seems to be a promising wallet alternative even if you use a degoogled device.

SapphironZA@sh.itjust.works on 03 Nov 21:35 next collapse

I never took him for a Claude evangelist.

He is more of a ChatGPT witchdoctor.

cRazi_man@europe.pub on 03 Nov 21:49 next collapse

You say you don’t need drive storage, but you already have it with Mailbox if you ever need it.

Not needing Meet because you don’t talk to people, this is the energy I need.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 03 Nov 22:04 next collapse

Yeah that’s a neat thing!

potustheplant@feddit.nl on 03 Nov 23:47 collapse

And yet here they are, talking to people.

Baguette@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 03 Nov 22:05 next collapse

I use Aegis for 2FA, I haven’t really had any issues with it

Libreoffice is ok enough for docs/sheets but it’s not really a cloud based service. I would say make your own setup for storage but with prices nowadays that probably isn’t happening lol

hneerqe@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 23:13 next collapse

people better get familiar with docker

flandish@lemmy.world on 03 Nov 23:14 next collapse

mailbox.org vs fastmail? i have a custom domain - but am “scared” to migrate my serious accts to it. (github bank etc). thoughts?

artyom@piefed.social on 04 Nov 00:27 next collapse

Mailbox has Drive/Office and Meet included. VPN is undoubtedly Mullvad. Yes their CEO is a fascist but none of them are perfect. Mullvad is as close as it gets.

If you ever wanted to Cake Wallet is pretty much the gold standard for mobile crypto wallets.

tabular@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 02:13 next collapse

“None are perfect” is typically used to mean they each have imperfections but are otherwise a good choice. The CEO being a fascist is such a large red flag that aircraft need to divert around it.

sudoer777@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 05:48 next collapse

IVPN seems like a decent option

Kuma@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 07:37 collapse

I kept seeing ppl talk about it but never looked into it, apparently he wrote a blog post about why he did it. It was an interesting read actually, in his words was it about activism and not about the party, he wanted to protest and that party happened to be the tactical one. He sounds like an anarchist in the post which surprised me a lot. But I still think it was stupid of him and my mixed feelings for mullvad is still there.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 04 Nov 09:58 collapse

Reading this post and the one he linked in the first paragraph, he sounds like an ancap

Kuma@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 13:14 collapse

My take away from those two is that he is a mix of a liberal, capitalist but heavy/mostly leaning anarchist. He has very strong views about freedom, does not trust humans with taking care of themselves or others and he do not want governance and think the internet is the perfect example.

One beautiful example of anarchic organization (but in a limited domain) is the internet. The internet is not run by a company. No government is in charge over it. It’s a lot of entities connecting their networks together for mutual benefit. Individuals, businesses, universities and non-profits build and propose standards and protocols. The others adopt them or not based on merit, reputation or practical considerations. The whole vast system, comprising a significant chunk of global GDP, and being essential to the functioning of almost everything, is running on decentralized, organic, bottom-up, voluntary anarchy.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 04 Nov 19:07 collapse

I mean, reading the lead up to your quote where you have wild statements and weird framing like below, it’s clear to me where they lean and I’d rather not meddle with such a person

The default for biological organisms is to exploit other organisms if they can get away with it. Most commonly by simply eating them.

A particularly pernicious form of power is collectivist power: power over individuals in groups exerted by other individuals in groups.

Combining power with collectivism means death and disaster. […] The more collectivist and centralized a society is, the worse for its individuals.

Unlike collectivism, where humanity has tried extreme totalitarianism many times

Anarchy. Literally ”no ruler”. Where people do not use violence to exert power over others. Where interpersonal interactions are voluntary. Where people join collectives by choice. That is, where individuals are sovereign.

Kuma@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 19:30 collapse

Yes definitely, I have been on your side all along on that part. It was a wild ride reading it all. I thought you only wanted to talk about the political part of it. Not his very rambling weird and bias view on the world where he only points to things that can kind of be used as examples but are very weird examples, like the ones you picked. I would not work for him and I am not his customer.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 04 Nov 19:38 collapse

Oh yeah for me these are kind of linked haha

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 00:46 next collapse

Bitwarden’s gone private equity. I’d hold off on switching to them; maybe try to live with KeePass if you’re not on a family plan.

xistera@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 04 Nov 00:53 next collapse

I switched over to vaultwarden. I am stuck on an iPhone for the time being and I don’t care for all the Keepass ios apps.

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 01:00 collapse

Completely valid. I myself am still on Bitwarden, waiting for the other shoe to drop, but my family is already entrenched in it.

I think if I have to move them again, I might seriously consider forking keepass, adding the features I use in bitwarden.

I do not look forward to dealing with IOS tho.

Allero@lemmy.today on 04 Nov 06:12 collapse

Vaultwarden is completely Bitwarden-compatible. You can export all data from Bitwarden server/service, import it into Vaultwarden server, and your family will not notice the change at all, except you’ll ask them to change address in their already installed Bitwarden app.

They don’t need to change anything else. To them, it will still be the same Bitwarden.

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 16:43 collapse

and your family will not notice the change at all

Here lie dragons: for as long as the private equity firm that owns Bitwarden chooses to let us use their clients.

There are non-Bitwarden Android clients around, but they lack Chrome extensions and IOS.

Allero@lemmy.today on 04 Nov 19:08 collapse

True, this is a possibility. But, in years of Vaultwarden’s existence, this never happened.

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 22:46 collapse

100% but for years of Vaultwarden’s existence, they haven’t been owned by private equity.

Just keep your eyes open and know that it could come for us. I’ve stopped counting on how many services went private->enshitify bad enough for me to bail.

Allero@lemmy.today on 05 Nov 08:46 collapse

Fair enough. In case we do need to move, here’s a quick tip: KeepassXC and many other password managers are able to read Bitwarden export files, so you can seamlessly move credentials there, should the need arise.

Also, Vaultwarden has a web interface, which can do as a temporary or full substitute. I used it for a while, it’s totally doable.

rumba@lemmy.zip on 05 Nov 14:12 collapse

able to read Bitwarden export files,

Oddly, i knew that to be the case deep down, and if someone had asked me if that worked, i’d have gone yeah absolutely, but I didn’t even think about it as a backup strategy, that’s 100% my plan going forward now :)

sudoer777@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 05:01 collapse

I would switch to KeePass if its sync method was more sane than “big binary file + Syncthing”, it seems like all the password manager options kindof suck in some way

rumba@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 16:12 collapse

Yeah, there are a bunch of ways to tackle that. Chunk-Based Content-Addressable Block Storage (that weird thing where they put a folder of 0-A the folders under that with hex-based naming and small chunks of data wouldn’t be horrible keeping update sizes managable. The real problem there is dealing with Syncthing conflict files. The monobinary is either new or old. Maybe a local-only CBC with deltas delivered by syncthing so they can overwrite each other and a rollback/history option.

P2P anything is complicated. Something as damning and imporant as password management makes it so much worse.

northendtrooper@lemmy.ca on 04 Nov 01:47 next collapse

Finding a good 2fa is such PITA. Is this have free limits too?

lobut@lemmy.ca on 04 Nov 02:03 next collapse

Someone mentioned: www.privateinternetaccess.com

Anyone know anything about it?

razen@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 04:25 next collapse

For meet, I just generate a Signal meet link and share with people.

Instead of bitwarden, I use KeePass with Syncthing.

Instead of Lumo(the app was terribly slow), you can use ddg ai, on fdroid there is a 1mb webview container application of ddg ai specifically so if you dont want to use ddg browser, yoi can use that for their ai.

For 2fa, i use stratumauth.

I need a vpn alternative too.

nasi_goreng@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 04:55 next collapse

Is there any free good email service other than Tuta?

All pricing are too high for people with average wage of my country.

mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works on 04 Nov 05:57 next collapse

Mailbox.org starts at €1 per month.

Other than that, there’s the old adage “if you’re not paying, you’re the product”

heartSagan5@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 06:06 collapse

Dude, even when you’re paying, you’re the product. These companies can get dirty. Like why is he moving from Proton if he was paying for it?

jjlinux@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 12:18 collapse

That’s exactly right. I got Proton Family about 13 or 14 months ago witha 2 years subscription, and am getting ready to run stalwart as my email server on a VPS and call it a day.

Have been testing for about 2 weeks, and after finally getting it right, it has been incredibly solid.

I tested the e2ee with my own proton email (pgp) and it’s flawless.

Before stalwart, I tried to have my own email server, what a pain in the ass that was. Not anymore.

howler@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 10:31 collapse

Happy customer of Mailbox for 3 years here! At first the UI was awful, but now they have redesigned it very, very nicely. Yes you have to pay but the price is completely fair, particularly if you are a heavy email user.

UI aside, I have had 0 issues with them. I have a custom domain, so I can create many aliases. Being able to sync my contacts and calendar via WebDav thanks to Mailbox instead of having to use a Google account is a great plus. On the computer I use their website, but many people prefer Thunderbird. On my phone and tablet I use FairEmail (I’m a big fan of the dev. That man is on the road to create the most flexible email app in the universe).

They offer a full suite with Drive, Notes, Calendar… But I don’t use them much, so I can’t comment on them.

altphoto@lemmy.today on 04 Nov 05:46 next collapse

Exactly! “I don’t call people”. I need the 911 button and the numbers for my family and that’s it. For everything else there’s Lemmy.

ComradeMiao@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 06:48 collapse

Exactly! “I don’t call people”. I need the 911 button and the numbers for my family and that’s it. For everything else there’s Lemmy.

… you have no friends?

altphoto@lemmy.today on 04 Nov 14:35 collapse

I’m married and have kids. If I ever see my friends it happens by accident at church, costco, etc. One time I was flying for business and I found an old friend on the same flight. I don’t need to call them and waste their time with whatever I might think of as necessary from my neck if the woods. I don’t live in the same state or city. It’s had to make friends when you have kids to feed. Also, since your time is busy there’s little to spare for other things. Once the kids are older and I retire, maybe I’ll go actively seeking friendships.

ComradeMiao@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 23:18 collapse

What an odd world view. A family and friends are compatible.

altphoto@lemmy.today on 05 Nov 03:33 collapse

I just don’t have close friends. I grew up elsewhere. You can’t have cake and eat it too sometimes. I’m too busy to have more than just saying hello if I see them my way somewhere. I’m also not that busy that I won’t stop and talk for a few minutes. I just am not gonna be driving to someone’s house or hang on the phone. There’s just too much to do.

ComradeMiao@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 06:46 next collapse

Bitwarden is getting worse btw unless you’re running it yourself

87Six@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 09:11 next collapse

Yea… God I hate the world… I started using Bitwarden like… A few months ago, and they’re already going in the shitter…

ComradeMiao@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 10:49 collapse

It seems it hasn’t happened yet. They are still open source for now. I am still using my Vaultwarden with Bitwarden.

It seems it might be going that way though.

If it goes fully closed source then I imagine the fix will be Vaultwarden devs coding some replacement apps.

87Six@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 12:04 collapse

Yea they haven’t done anything yet but afaik they changed their licenses to prepare to do it… So it’s only a matter of time

uniquethrowagay@feddit.org on 04 Nov 16:45 collapse

Never understood the appeal, I’ve had my passwords in a keepass file on a Nextcloud server for years. If I’m gonna involve a third party, I night as well just use Firefox Sync (which I do for less important stuff)

Hueristic_Autistic@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 09:17 collapse

I have all my passwords written down in a journal not in a computer

Zerush@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 10:39 next collapse

I’m fien with Murena Workspace (France) and Filen (Germany) for Cloud, both OpenSource. I don’t use VPN, only Cyberghost Proxy extension to skip country restrictions, maybe the SPN (multichannel VPN) of the Portmaster app, if needed one day

night_petal@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 11:48 next collapse

I use RiseUp VPN. It works for everything, but please don’t use it to sail. Journalists rely on it and their hardware has been seized previously.

Takeshidude@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 12:47 next collapse

Ive switch to IVPN; Njalla is really appealing, but I dont think you get the options of switching countries/servers, which I like doing if I start getting throttled somewhere

RhondaSandTits@lemmy.sdf.org on 04 Nov 14:27 collapse

You’re correct about njalla. I’ll paste in a previous post I made a few months about my experience using njalla…

I use them on my nas for torrenting.

  • €5 per month.
  • Accepts payment in crypto, including monero.
  • Can only use your account on one device.
  • Only one location, Sweden.
  • Assigns dynamic IP address to indivdual user session and each IP address is only assigned to one user at a time.
  • Any port(s) can be opened.

Most might consider it expensive give the limitation on devices and location but the freedom to open multiple ports makes it amazing for torrenting.
My nas runs 5 instances of qbittorrent and slskd all with connectable ports opened.

It works reliably for what I use it for. Other than that, I have nothing to report on my experience using them and in this case, no news is good news.

ryper@lemmy.ca on 04 Nov 23:54 collapse

Why 5 instances of qbittorrent? Does a single instance have trouble with lots of torrents or something?

ZeroHora@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 13:53 next collapse

I’m enjoying vacation totally out of the loop here, what Proton did? Fascism or fascism?

Konstant@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 14:07 collapse

CEO and other top admins are AI apologists. Wants their developers to work more AI code than the traditional way. There’s concerns this could make Proton code less secure. Lemmy and Reddit are up and arms about the AI.

cantstopthesignal@sh.itjust.works on 04 Nov 16:21 collapse

up and arms up in arms

It’s an idiom.

Konstant@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 16:35 collapse

Noticed it after posting but didn’t want to edit.

Manalith@midwest.social on 04 Nov 16:09 next collapse

I would maybe hold off on choosing Bitwarden. Around the time they raised their pricing they started getting venture capitalist money so the enshittification there may be coming. As far as alternatives, the only other one I’ve used besides Proton is KeePass which could be make or break depending on how you setup the vault, I’d probably save it in something pCloud so you aren’t screwed should something happen to your server, but YMMV.

mub@lemmy.ml on 04 Nov 16:50 next collapse

The primary service that we all need to de-google (or de-proton in this case) is email. The trouble is, the available email services all seem to limit you to 1 user and a few aliases, unless you want to pay a lot more. This kinda makes sense if you are using the proton domain name, they have name space limits and don’t want to become a spam source. However, if you bring your own domain name the breakdown of users and aliases is essentially irrelevant to the cost, and it should only be based on storage and transmit limits. I should be able to have as many user accounts and aliases as I like. This is what I get from MXRoute, and what makes it impossible for my to leave them even though they are mostly US based. I can’t find a solid replacement service that isn’t ripping us off with unnecessary limitations.

In case anyone suggests it, hosting your own email server is a very risky business, and best left to someone else.

FineCoatMummy@sh.itjust.works on 04 Nov 20:48 next collapse

available email services all seem to limit you to 1 user and a few aliases,

Have you looked into mailbox.org or posteo.de? The second one doesn’t let you use a custom domain, if you care about that. The first one does.

I’m looking for a Proton replacement too. Haven’t decided yet, but mailbox.org is on my short list. Standard plan gives you 25 aliases. Or you can use a custom domain and have as many alaises as you want.

mub@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 02:25 collapse

They are close but I think mailbox.org charges per mailbox.

The best match I got was Migadu which I’m still tempted by but they’ve had reliability problems before.

The alternative is an smtp relay service in front of my own mail server, though not my preference.

Hueristic_Autistic@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 09:16 collapse

Five Eyes, Nine Eyes, and Fourteen Eyes intelligence-sharing agreements makes it nearly impossible to have privacy with email unless self hosted even still…

stellargmite@lemmy.world on 04 Nov 19:51 next collapse

Has anyone unlinked their SimpleLogin account from Proton? I see its an option, but curious what will happen. I was a subscriber seperately prior to Proton but linked them up later. This will be the harder thing to migrate so if I can keep just simpleLogin going for a while longer. So many aliases :(

FactualPerson@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 09:23 collapse

It should work without, that was the original idea. But it is owned by Proton now.

If you end up having to create another SL account - this could be useful simplelogin.io/docs/…/transfer-alias/

NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip on 04 Nov 21:20 next collapse

Skip bitwarden.

besbin@lemmygrad.ml on 04 Nov 23:08 collapse

What about vault warden backend so you don’t have to deal with their shit and have 2fa?

WandowsVista@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 00:03 next collapse

I’ve been using mailbox.org for a few years now and I love it.

the web client is good, and it was easy to set up on my phone alongside my other accounts.

it costs money (something like €3/year), but it’s worth it.

plus, it’s still relatively new, so if you suffer from Generic White Guy Name™ like I do, you can finally have a username/email address that’s not full of numbers.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 05 Nov 01:10 next collapse

can i ask for more details about the email address and generic names thing? I’m not sure i understand whar you mean sorry

syzygy@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 02:00 collapse

Basically there’s no way you could get an email address of just: [first][last]@gmail.com on Gmail, because there are so many users of Gmail. That’s not the case for newer services with less users.

inlandempire@jlai.lu on 05 Nov 06:02 collapse

ohhh right that makes sense thanks

siftmama@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 04:20 next collapse

You’re better off adding a custom domain anyway, that way you’re not vendor locked and you can move the emails with ease. It’s included in all the subs I think.

amgine@lemmy.world on 05 Nov 14:33 collapse

I switched to mailbox from proton and put addy.io in front of it for custom domains and aliasing

TheCynicalSaint@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 00:13 next collapse

Windscribe has been good to me as a VPN.

Father_Redbeard@lemmy.ml on 05 Nov 14:23 collapse

I’ve switched email providers a few times, but I bought a custom domain and use that as my email address. Which makes switching providers easy. I’m sure I don’t need to mention that in a Privacy community, but figured I would anyway.

I went from an @gmail, to @proton (then bought the domain), then switched to Fastmail with same domain.

user@startrek.website on 06 Nov 12:39 collapse

FYI: Fastmail company is on a X eyes country with server operating on the US as well. That being said, probably the least bad option now.