I hate privacy. Convince me otherwise
from garbage_world@lemmy.world to privacy@lemmy.ml on 12 Jul 11:36
https://lemmy.world/post/49344001

I’m ideologically transparency extremist. This means I want absolute openness for everyone. Overwhelming majority of people on lemmy and other places disagree with me, which means that statistically I’m wrong.

I have some strong arguments for my side and most argumentation from your side is just common trolling or logical fallacies, which makes me think that I’m correct.

Even with that, the software I use is probably more private than solid portion of members of this community, becuase almost everything I use is open source.

I want to give your side another chance. I hope for polite and fruitful discussion.

#privacy

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Sauvandu60@lemmy.ml on 12 Jul 11:43 next collapse

Can i have password to your account, please?

BaroqueW@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:47 next collapse

Not like this

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:49 next collapse

“IhopeIwillrememberthisone” for this lemmy account. I use 2FA everywhere, because that’s more secure. I also believe in TOTAL transparency, in my ideal world everyone would share their details.

Also nice troll

Today@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:50 collapse

Damn. I can’t remember. Was it Hunter-2?

JustJack23@slrpnk.net on 12 Jul 11:46 next collapse

Let me guess you are straight white male with no history or worker organizing or any kind of “illegal” activity.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:49 collapse

What illegal activities?

Unrelated to the post

JustJack23@slrpnk.net on 12 Jul 11:58 next collapse

Anything that the government considers illegal, but you consider morally good.

For example helping migrants or military deserters, organizing or participating in squats, etc.

Even when buying weed if it is illegal where you live you see how privacy is necessary, but the point is that privacy is a tool and not doing anything illegal your whole life is a privilege, not all people will have.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:07 collapse

There are no such things. If there are things that general population considers illegal, that are moral according to me, I should act to make them legal.

JustJack23@slrpnk.net on 12 Jul 12:10 next collapse

As I said, straight white male.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:11 collapse

I’m not straight.

artyom@piefed.social on 12 Jul 13:18 collapse

What, in the interim, you’re charged for this “crime”? Because the government spied on your personal data to find out?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:57 collapse

I just don’t do things that are illegal

Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:51 collapse

I’d argue it’s relevant. In my state it’s illegal to cross a street anywhere that isn’t a crosswalk, but the city is not made to be walkable so there are places where you may walk an entire mile before you can cross. It’s understood by the populace and the authorities that no one is going to walk a two mile loop to get across 20ft of road. Nevertheless, I’ve committed a crime each time I do so and I’ve done it knowingly, on a few times in plain view of law enforcement who did not care.

In your scenario I would have to self report every time do so and the officer would have to self report every time they let me. Idealistically, this will lead to a world where we assess the poor implementation of this law and rewrite it to address the nuance of the situation. Unfortunately, I’m not the first case of nuance and this law is widely understood to be unenforceable garbage. That hasn’t changed the law. Instead it would mean I’d recieve a fine in the mail each time I report and eventually the person mailing out fines will have to flag me as a flagrant repeat offender which would lead to jail time.

Even with absolute transparency, the cheapest and most convenient option would be to jail me for crossing a street wrong and the only people that will care enough to act are my immediate family. So to ask what petty laws you may have broken is absolutely relevant to the discussion. Bureaucracies, even when crystal clear, have a way of grinding humans into pulp.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:00 collapse

In such world you and others who have the same issue would act to fix that, so your local goverment would either change that or provide a satisfactory explanation

ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 11:48 next collapse

Tell us;

  • All your passwords including of your financial things like bank accounts.
  • Your family problems, sexual life style and inheritance.
  • Show us your intimate pictures.

You hate privacy right, so you don’t need that kind of privacy either. Anyway, this seems to be more of a bait post than anything else.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:53 collapse

I use 2FA everywhere

A short list of my family problems:

  • We have rare genetic cancer, so by the time I’m 50 I will be barely able to walk and hear
  • My sister is on a wheelchair (related)

I don’t have sexual life because of above and the fact I’m sex repulsed.

I don’t know what you mean by inheritance.

I can’t send them in the public. If you really want them, please PM me.

SatyrSack@quokk.au on 12 Jul 12:20 next collapse

Why would you request a private message if you hate privacy?

Postmortal_Pop@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:32 next collapse

Not to condone, but just because they support an idea doesn’t mean they don’t have to follow community guidelines. I’m pretty sure they’d get banned for openly posting nudes.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:39 collapse

P in PM stands for “personal”

<img alt="" src="https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/42784937-db98-4441-9a79-aec304ca1043.png">

SatyrSack@quokk.au on 12 Jul 12:45 next collapse

I have never seen someone assume that. Curious.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Private_message

In computer networking, a private message (PM), or direct message (DM), refers to a private communication

That comic is also completely irrelevant.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:53 collapse

This is my personal convention to be understood by other people and not use the word “privacy” in a positive context.

artyom@piefed.social on 12 Jul 13:13 collapse

It can stand for either. But it’s a moot point. The question is why you don’t want to share this information publicly.

Your comic is not in any way applicable to this conversation so I’m not sure why you’re sharing it. You’re not trying to improve anything.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:56 collapse

Because it’s against the rules?

I’m that old guy. I don’t want privacy.

That other guy is that person in the well, they ask me why do I use “private” messaging

banause@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:30 collapse

I can’t send them in the public. If you really want them, please PM me.

bruh

Rudee@lemmy.ml on 12 Jul 11:51 next collapse

People deserve privacy because there are many things they want to protect, and it’s their prerogative on how much they’re willing to share.

A lot of the things we hide could be used to hurt us if someone with malicious intent had access to them. Our account logins, our bank accounts, ways to access our houses.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:02 collapse

Such as?

If everything were public, you would see when someone accesses your bank account for example

FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website on 12 Jul 11:50 next collapse

You are so awesome. Not a single fault in your conviction, your reasoning, or your personality. Who among us mere mortals could ever change your mind? The answer: none. Because we do not hold a candle to you or we simply do not care. Thank you for rage baiting with us today.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:58 collapse

Okay. I suppose asking the opposing side is better than doing nothing.

drolex@sopuli.xyz on 12 Jul 11:52 next collapse

You’re using an alias, so your first sentence is already a lie.

But it doesn’t matter. Complete transparency would be a death sentence for all political opponents under authoritarian regimes. It would be a huge risk for them elsewhere.

It would allow companies that control the Web infrastructures and its software to have even more power over the Internet users.

It would make many technologies completely useless or unusable: online banking, electronic votes… Wikipedia would be dead, that would be a major setback

[deleted] on 12 Jul 11:57 collapse

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18107@aussie.zone on 12 Jul 12:12 next collapse

With complete transparency, a corrupt government can execute any group they want (disabled, homosexual, black, immigrant, etc).

If everyone was completely transparent about everything, a corrupt government would not be able to form. Unfortunately there are people without empathy who will hide their actions, and use other people’s information against them.

I can’t force a government to be completely transparent, but I can save my own life by not disclosing certain information about myself to them.

I don’t hide my bank account and password because I’ve done something wrong or I’m afraid that people will see what I’ve spent money on. I hide my bank account and password because I’m afraid that someone will take all of my money, then I’ll starve to death.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:24 collapse

Thanks.

In my perfect society transparency is selected by the society because of it’s benefits. After that nobody would be able to hide anything. So your bank account would be public, but nobody would take from it, because their actions would be public.

plyth@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:28 next collapse

After that nobody would be able to hide anything

How would you enforce that?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:45 collapse

Ban all encryption, monitor the entire internet. It’s relatively easy from technical side

plyth@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:47 collapse

People can still meet offline.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:54 collapse

It’s not hard to track them

plyth@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:59 collapse

But you don’t know what they plan. The organised criminals do it regularly.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:34 collapse

With societal approval, it’s a trivial task to avoid track criminals

plyth@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:31 collapse

How, especially if you don’t know that they are criminals?

TheBlackLounge@lemmy.zip on 12 Jul 12:35 collapse

That’s not an ideology, that’s a dream. It’s trivially true, but it doesn’t apply to the real world. Nothing you do can bring reality closer to that, and you’ll just open yourself to harm.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:57 collapse

We are on lemmy, others have even wilder ideas of utopia.

Privacy is an issue of the current world too. We don’t need to reach the utopia to improve the society

TheBlackLounge@lemmy.zip on 12 Jul 13:12 collapse

Yeah but we’re talking about your idea now.

We don’t need to reach utopia, but the supposed benefits of total nonprivacy only come when it’s total. Then it’ll never happen, as long as someone benefits from hiding.

Econ 101 is about the benefits af free market. All the classes after are about why it can’t be achieved and how to deal with that.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:49 collapse

Reducing privacy can improve the current world too. I have a list of anti privacy laws that could be implemented even today and would improve society:

  • Ban on E2EE for commercial products
  • Ban on proprietary software in government
  • Making tax forms public
TheBlackLounge@lemmy.zip on 12 Jul 15:05 collapse

I don’t know whether I agree with all of these, but the list is probably longer and there will be many good ideas. That doesn’t mean total nonprivacy is possible, or a good idea.

The best ideas in your list are probably more about transparency in low-trust environments, rather than personal privacy.

drolex@sopuli.xyz on 12 Jul 12:15 collapse

I appreciate and respect your honesty regarding your real name, but given the world we live in, I would still recommend you hide it here. I still stand corrected.

I really don’t see how authoritarian regimes would be affected negatively (for them) by transparency?

Regarding Wikipedia, I think a lot of contributors would hesitate to give their real name. If it was the norm, maybe the usages would be different, but I think I wouldn’t have personally contributed if I knew that people I know could find my works there. And I haven’t even done anything weird.

For banking, secrecy is a cornerstone of the system, even IRL. What the banks manage to do IRL would still need to be done on the Internet. Public transactions IRL is unthinkable and it would be online

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:27 collapse

There’s literally nothing anyone can do using just name.

Authoritarian regimes would have to be transparent too.

I see contributing to Wikipedia as a thing one should be proud of. I don’t use my real name only because nobody does.

Why can’t transactions be public? I don’t know any hard barriers that prevent it

drolex@sopuli.xyz on 12 Jul 13:12 collapse

For banking, people just don’t want other people to know what they do with their money, and how much money they have. Culturally I think it would be very hard to change. Not talking about dildos and such, but what you buy is really a window into your private life. When you start having children for instance, privacy becomes very important.

Thanks for the answers, it’s an interesting perspective even if I strongly disagree. I wish people wouldn’t downvote without giving their opinion.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:53 collapse

Thanks. I’m close to changing my mind.

itkovian@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 11:54 next collapse

Tell me your dick size and will tell you why you need privacy.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:03 collapse

Somewhere between 10 and 15 cm. I never cared to measure

HeroHelck@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 11:57 next collapse

most argumentation from your side is just common trolling or logical fallacies, which makes me think that I’m correct.

This, itself, is a logical fallacy. A fallacious argument is not “incorrect” or “wrong” it’s just invalid, meaning it does not meet the formal requirements of logical validity, not much else. Things can be both fallacious and correct.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:04 collapse

Right. But it still leaves a bad taste, especially when my side have non fallacious arguments.

HeroHelck@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 12:12 collapse

Well let’s consider that logical validity, while useful for objective facts and conditions, might not be a good a benchmark for things that humans are emotionally attached to? Is it an unreasonable thing to point out that most humans simply do not (and will not) use the formal system of logic, even if trained in it, as the basis on which they emotionally relate to their experience? What I am trying to say is just that, while it might be logically valid it is not emotionally valid, and that really does matter. Would you enforce a world that is reasonable and logical, but makes the people who live in it uncomfortable and miserable?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:20 collapse

Yes. I’m all for optimal solutions.

Also, I’m ready to change my mind as soon as I get enough arguments that they in my opinion (my opinion, because those are my views) outweigh arguments of my side.

The only possibility for me to still believe in complete transparency, but not try to enforce it would be if the cost (in net humanity benefit) of transition would be higher than cumulative value of post transition world or if it would be strongly opposed in common vote

HeroHelck@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 12:32 collapse

Well, I simply cannot agree that anything that would notably increase human misery could be considered optimal in the first place. So I suppose on first facts we simply disagree.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:48 collapse

In this hypothetical scenario human misery comes from the fact that people are attached to the status quo. All revolutionary groups would do the same thing. Over time people would adapt

HeroHelck@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 12:55 collapse

Eh, I can not say that I agree that people’s attachment to privacy is purely a matter of the current status quo. I think a human desire for privacy, at least in some contexts, is innate. Sure, I’ll grant that it’s extremity in the modern era is due to the oppressive and abusive state, but I think people have an certain in-born aversion to being overly judged and observed.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:32 collapse

Thanks for your responses and not trolling.

There’s not enough data to tell if the need for privacy is something inherit or not, but that doesn’t matter anyway. Medicine isn’t natural, but we use it, because it makes sense

18107@aussie.zone on 12 Jul 11:59 next collapse

There are many things that should be public: laws, standards, political donations.

Some things are beneficial when public, but are considered acceptable to be private: source code, recipes, political opinions, criminal history.

Some things can cause significant harm if not kept private: passwords, home address, government issued id, Jewish heritage during WW2.

“I need privacy, not because my actions are questionable, but because your judgement and intentions are.”

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:08 collapse

Thanks.

Hey others, look at this guy, you don’t need to troll

otter@lemmy.ca on 12 Jul 14:38 collapse

I think the disagreement or misunderstanding comes from the premise

If we had a different world where it was impossible to lie or hide anything, then a lot of our current problems would be gone. Meanwhile a lot of new problems might come up

In this world, if you can’t enforce that everyone stays completely open and honest, then it is in everyone’s best interest to keep certain pieces of information private

theherk@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:18 next collapse

Tell me your views on if children deserve privacy?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:28 collapse

Privacy is not something one can deserve, just as being tortured

theherk@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:25 collapse

Do you believe children should be able to use the restroom and dress in private or not? Simple yes or no?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:58 collapse

Yes, but they could do that with their parents if they want

theherk@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:07 collapse

I’m just establishing the baseline that there is some degree of privacy which is not only expected but simply justified with intuition alone. So, there is a line somewhere. Where one draws that line may differ. Your line is no doubt extreme to many; certainly me. But some privacy is critical to a functioning society. I tend to believe that aside from those that hold public office, there is little reason not to have complete privacy.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:25 collapse

Okay, fair. Thanks for not treating me as an idiot or a troll.

Augmented1207@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:19 next collapse

Number 1 argument for me is, your data can be used to manipulate you, postly politically. You might not be a big target because you use Lemmy and linux and a vpn or whatever but other people that are not interested in tech are

Even if its not political manipulation, maybe its optimizing ads so you buy more. Which then can be used to manipulate you politically as you lack the funds to stand up for your morals. And even if you personally do, because you might have a privileged background, others might not and for them its absolutely worth fighting for.

Benn Jordan has a great video about it

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:32 next collapse

If I decide to vote on someone or buy something, that’s still my decision. Ads main purpose isn’t to make you buy the product, but to make you aware of it’s existence.

NightFantom@slrpnk.net on 12 Jul 12:53 collapse

You are not immune to propaganda.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:58 collapse

Propaganda is also a part of the product.

Also, at the end, it will even out

NightFantom@slrpnk.net on 12 Jul 13:40 collapse

“in the end it will even out” what does that even mean?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:19 collapse

Propaganda from all sides, truth or merits will eventually even out

Augmented1207@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:44 collapse

I feel like there is a lot lore right wing propaganda or from Russia and China to destabilize the west. The reason I feel like is that the crazy rich people did not have moral or a back bone in the first place which is the reason why they accumulated the power and wealth in the first place to influence others. Like i said, watch the video of benn Jordan about that.

Also, you might feel or be resistant to propaganda, but I bet your and my parents or great parents are not and they still make the minority of voters

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:56 collapse

Mass propaganda is too general, no needs to be too general for personal privacy to matter

madthumbs@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:17 collapse

Conspiracy theories. It’s a happier life without them.

"Benn Jordan has a great video about it "

You guys always have your videos and click bait headlines (that contradict the actual articles).

DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 12:20 next collapse

I think I understand the theory behind your idea, as in not that a single person or a group of people be transparent and open, but that everyone do it at the same time. It can lead to interesting discussion.

I think it falls apart because it would also require the immediate disappearance of bad faith and mistakes. Let’s say your real name is public. A bad actor could call up your bank, tell them your name, security questions (your dog’s name or whatever, since the animal adoption records would also be public), your account number (which is already more or less public today), and get access to your money. If they don’t do it right away, call back later with even more info and socially engineer customer support to get in.

Then there are marginalised groups of people who are in danger every day when they’re in public because of race, gender, religion, etc depending on location. If all that was public also, they’d get attacked even more on the regular.

What about when someone is critical of a government that while public to the degree of your preference, is in a great degree of control over the population by means of public funding restriction or fines? The existence of that person or group would be inconvenient at best to them, so they could just find out everything about the group, track them down and disappear them. Yes, that would be public as well, but the rest of the population would be too scared to do anything about it.

Also for me personally, I’m not interested in the input of other people about how I live, what I do and how I spend my money. And definitely not interested in any ads tailored to me based on my data.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:36 collapse

For the first part, that society would be even more public. Everyone could access every account at any time, but accessing accounts would be logged and tied to you PII. You would’t have to remember any passwords.

Those attacks and actions of government would be also public.

(I’m assuming there’s no way of blocking ads) Personal ads are beneficial for you, because they show you options for what you were planning to buy anyway. If you don’t want, just don’t buy the thing presented in that ad

DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 12:44 collapse

How would that society do punishment? If someone takes all your money, the fact that it’s public wouldn’t have that much benefit. They’re publically a lot richer and you’re publically on the streets. They go to some other country or hide locally, and you’re left without anything.

For the attacks, it’s a similar question. Once someone gets killed because of injustice or discrimination, the publicity of the act doesn’t help much anymore.

Ads are a burden on the public even today. Even when relevant, they’re not in your interest (because the product is crap, predatory, etc). If it was in your interest, they wouldn’t need to advertise for it. Ads are engineered to hog your attention, and make you buy without inspecting the product. Watching let’s say twenty per day (which is a low number for people who don’t block), dilutes your decision making and lowers the quality of the ones you do make because you already know about a product, so why comparison shop?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:51 collapse

If someone takes all your money, the money is taken back, after demand of the owner of the account. The person who steal the money is prosecuted.

You can’t kill anyone without preparation.

Ads exist to present you a product, so you consider it in your decision making process.

DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 13:02 collapse

How old are you? This seems like a relatively naive worldview, because it doesn’t take into account how crafty people can be. What if I transfer some money to you and then claim that you did it by impersonating me? There would be no provenance of what you could be capable of doing since all info is public. Of course if you’d rather keep your age to yourself that’s fine, since we’re not in that theoretical society now.

You can absolutely kill someone without preparation, especially when emotionally or politically motivated (out in public with a strong punch, elsewhere when the opportunity arises). Check out this page on wikipedia for some material: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crime_of_passion

In a better world, ads would exist to do that. However as it is, they exist to push the viewer in any way possible to buy the product. If you see something in an ad, it means that the company marketing it has enough budget taken out of manufacturing and R&D to pay for the ad. So the vast majority of the time, if you see something in an ad it means the product is not that great. (edit: Because good products don’t tend to need ads as they speak for themselves and their existence travels by word-of-mouth. Also called “organic traffic” by SEO people)

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:40 collapse

I’m 16. Each accession of the bank account would be logged and it would be identifiable that you did that.

Okay, let my clarify: You can’t kill anyone without preparation and escape in a totally surveilled state.

I don’t think I can convince you on the matter of ads

DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 13:45 collapse

Your honor, it looks like I did it because @garbage_world hacked into my account.

In a totally surveilled state, yeah you couldn’t escape. But the victim would be still dead and it wouldn’t have happened if their info was private.

Yeah but to be fair, I’m not the one posting with “Convince me otherwise” in the title ;)

DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 13:50 collapse

Oh also, there may come a time when you change your mind and decide that you’d rather be more private than you are now. Since you’re not 18 yet that’s even more important, so even if you hate privacy, please know that you still need it in our world today. You do whatever you want as far as I’m concerned but strategicaly, it’s best to not reveal as much PII as you have in other comments of this thread in the future. Not for right now, but for the future yourself. This IS an interesting theory to explore, but just in case it doesn’t work out, please leave enough security for yourself to be able to change your mind.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:22 collapse

Thanks for care

airikr@lemmy.ml on 12 Jul 12:25 next collapse

So, you love absolute transparency, but you hate privacy. Alright. Then you will answer my questions truthfully.

Where do you live? How much income do you have per month? What is your bank account number? Do you use VISA or Mastercard? What is your credit card number including the expiration date and the CVC?

And no, I am not a troll, troll.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:44 collapse

I live in Poland in city of Nowiny, I get somewhere between 400 to 600PLN income per month. I don’t have a card issued by my bank and I can’t currently access my account number

“I’m not a troll” trolls

airikr@lemmy.ml on 12 Jul 13:32 collapse

Alright.

  • Upload 3 photos of yourself to this thread: 1 from your shoulders and up (with your whole face clearly visible), 1 showing your profile from the shoulders and up, and 1 where we can see your whole body. All pictures must be the original files straight from the camera app with the metadata attached.
  • How tall are you in cm?
  • How much do you weight in kg?
  • What is your street address and postal code?
  • What is your phone number with the country code?
  • Are you single or married or in a relationship?
  • Why you can’t access your bank?
  • Do you have any credit card that you have money on? If yes, what are the credit card number, expiration date, and CVC of all the credit cards that you have?
  • What is the name of your bank?
  • What phone do you use, and what applications do you have installed on it?
  • Do you use Windows, Linux, or macOS?
  • What is your interests?
  • Do you have any sexual fetishes? If yes, state them all.
  • What is your sexual orientation?
  • Who is your closest friend?
  • Do you live alone?
  • Do you have any siblings?
  • Are your parents still alive?
  • What is your date of birth?
  • Have you ever got caught by the police? If yes, for what, when, for how many times, and what was the outcome (jail, fines, etc.)?
  • List your 5 favourite movies.
  • List your 5 favourite TV shows.
  • How many bills do you have per month?
  • What kind of bills do you have?
  • Name 3 people that you care the most about.

Follow the instructions and answer all of these questions truthfully so we can build a profile of you. Since you love full transparency and hate privacy, doing all of this without any lies should be easy for you.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:19 collapse

  • imgur.com/a/3L2jf98
  • 183cm
  • 97kg
  • Zgórsko 67E, 26-052
  • +48 793 682 348
  • Single
  • Because I don’t have the code and I would have to request a new code from my bank, which I can’t do in sunday, also there’s no need to
  • No
  • Pekao SA
  • I have CMF Phone 2 Pro, buying which was the second biggest mistake in my life. This is the FULL list of installed applications: Uninistallable garbage, aurora store, cromite, whatsapp, messenger, signal, delta chat, proton pass, youtube revanced, futo keyboard, epson printer, github, lichess, newpipe, aegis auth, accu battery, revanced manager, obsidian, anki
  • I use linux, nixos, here is my config: github.com/…/NixOS-config
  • Computers, linux and software
  • Non sexual content
  • Aroace
  • She told me that I can’t name her online or share any other infromations about her
  • No
  • Yes
  • Yes
  • 25.01.2010
  • No
  • In no particular order: Fanatyk, Flat Earth - Serious Analysis. AOT The Last Attack, Project Hail Mary and that’s all, I haven’t watch a movie not from this list in ages
  • AOT, ATLA
  • No
  • N/A
  • My mom, My dad, My friend
DecentM@lemmy.blahaj.zone on 12 Jul 14:46 collapse

Did you ask your parents if they’re fine with you posting the address of their house? You’re not seeing adverse things in your life yet because you’re being protected by everyone around you. They might have issues with info like this being posted online. Not just the address but all that. Since you like transparency, there shouldn’t be anything blocking you from telling them and seeing if they’re okay with it.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:58 collapse

They told me I can do whatever I want as long as it isn’t causing them problems. Maybe if one of you come here in person and told them, they would care.

dieTasse@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:46 next collapse

Please send me login info (login+password+otp) for all your email accounts, instant messaging accounts, social media accounts etc and allow me to peruse (and maybe publish). Consider yourself lawyered.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:54 collapse

You do that too. Transparency is beneficial only if all sides are transparent

dieTasse@feddit.org on 12 Jul 13:12 collapse

I care about my privacy. But apparently you do too.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:50 collapse

I care about your privacy and there’s no benefit on giving you that information besides making you feel better. If you come to my home, so I can see you physically, I can give you access to my phone and PC.

bushvin@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 12:54 next collapse

Hey, appreciate you opening the floor for genuine discussion. I’ll do my best to give you real arguments rather than the usual noise you’ve probably encountered.

First, a key distinction that often gets muddled: Privacy isn’t secrecy. Nobody’s arguing for a right to conceal wrongdoing. Privacy is about control over information flow—deciding when, to whom, and how much you disclose. Rejecting privacy because some people use it to hide bad things is like rejecting doors because some people lock them for bad reasons.

The power asymmetry problem: “Absolute openness for everyone” sounds egalitarian, but in practice it creates an infrastructure that benefits the powerful. If all transactions, communications, and associations are public, who has the resources to actually exploit that data? Corporations for profiling, governments for political monitoring, employers for discrimination, insurers for risk assessment. Ordinary people can’t process or act on that ocean of data—but Facebook, Google, and state agencies sure can. So paradoxically, radical transparency tends to increase power concentration rather than flatten it.

Chilling effects are real and documented: When people know they’re being observed, they self-censor. This affects dissent, minority viewpoints, identity exploration, support group participation, even just the freedom to make mistakes and grow. There’s a reason secret ballots exist—transparency in how you voted would enable intimidation. The principle scales.

The open source thing is interesting: You mention using mostly open-source software, which is itself a privacy-preserving choice. Open source lets you audit what your software does, resist opaque surveillance, and maintain control over your computing environment. So you’re already practicing a form of privacy advocacy at the infrastructure level, even if you reject it at the personal data level. Maybe the tension is that you want institutional transparency (governments, corporations accountable to the public) but don’t see the need for personal privacy—and those aren’t actually in conflict. You can want both.

**On being statistically outnumbered: **Fair point that majority opinion isn’t proof of correctness. But I’d suggest the pushback you’re seeing isn’t purely ideological—many people arrive at privacy preferences through lived experience: harassment, doxxing, stalking, discrimination, political persecution, identity theft. These aren’t hypothetical edge cases.

What I’d genuinely propose instead of absolute openness: Contextual integrity—the idea that information flows are appropriate when they respect social context. Your health data belongs with your doctor, not advertisers. Political donations belong with regulators for accountability, but not necessarily with your employer. Corporate filings should be public, but your browsing history shouldn’t.

The real question isn’t “privacy vs. transparency” but “what deserves transparency and what deserves protection?” And those answers differ depending on whether we’re talking about a government official’s finances or a regular person’s medical records.

I’m curious though—what specifically drives your transparency preference? Is it institutional accountability? A belief that human nature handles openness well? Something else? I’d like to understand the steel-manned version of your position better, because I think there’s a real conversation to be had about where the lines should actually be drawn.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:13 collapse

Thanks ChatGPT.

If there’s no privacy, there’s no option for those bad people to do bad things.

Fair point, but indexing and monitoring isn’t that hard, I think there would be groups responsible for most crimes and wrongdoings.

Those effects also increase your productivity and make you work better (even on personal things).

Open source is open, not private.

Those are all emotional things, not facts

So just privacy?

what specifically drives your transparency preference?

hate for privacy and the fact transparency fixes all the problem privacy fixes, but better

bushvin@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:19 collapse

Thanks ChatGPT

To be transparent, yes, but you started it.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:28 collapse

I didn’t use chatgpt, but I don’t care. All are care about is value of arguments and yours was one of the best

dieTasse@feddit.org on 12 Jul 12:55 next collapse

I suggest you see this video: nbtv.media/…/i-have-nothing-to-hide-the-dangerous…

It’s nice to have dreams, but in current society, with human nature, this dream of full transparency is never gonna work. Even if I believe people to be inherently good, you can never count on altruism (on a large scale).

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:30 collapse

Answering each of the arguments in that video:

  1. Privacy is About Consent. Emotional argument. It is better for society as a whole to give their personal data
  2. Nothing to Hide, Everything to Protect. You don’t need to share everything. Statistically the chance that something wrong is going to happen to you are close to zero. You should protect on physical level, not by not sharing your data, not sharing which can be harmful.
  3. Privacy is NOT Dead. Creating arguments from thin air. Privacy is better than it ever was and that’s a bad thing.
  4. Your Data Is Forever. First: Data can’t be storen forver, becuase it loses value. Second: And what? If somebody uses that data years from when it was created, you will know that. In most cases that data would be only an excuse to do something bad to you.
  5. It’s Not About You Idealistically: If some people need privacy, they just need transparency, just don’t see that. In real life: me hiding my informations will change nothing in their situation
  6. Uncertain Future. If bad actors rise to power, they will find a way to do something bad with me, no matter if they have that data or not.
  7. Surveillance Stifles Creativity and Dissent. It also increases productivity, which is a fair trade for me.
  8. Surveillance Isn’t About Criminals. Yes it is.
  9. Your Data Puts Others at Risk. Others have their own minds. If they don’t want to put their data at risk, they should told me that or cut ties with me.
  10. You Send A Signal With Your Choices. Okay, this argument doesn’t have and strength on it’s own
postman@literature.cafe on 12 Jul 13:00 next collapse

So, when they come to your door in 1943 and ask if Anne Frank is upstairs, you’ll be fully transparent.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:35 collapse

No, because I respect her privacy

ash@piefed.ca on 12 Jul 13:07 next collapse

common trolling or logical fallacies

You can practice transparency extremism on yourself. Your life your choices.

But don’t you think making others share everything against their will is unethical?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:42 collapse

Don’t you think that enforcing laws on others is unethical? What about vaccines?

Society would be just better if it were transparent, so you need to force it.

Communists want to start a revolution without much support, because they think everyone would like the final effect

ash@piefed.ca on 12 Jul 15:01 collapse

Don’t you think that enforcing laws on others is unethical? What about vaccines?

yes they’re unethical and pragmatic. Like how you sometimes have to shoot a bear to save people. If you are in better circumstances you can keep both the bear and the people happy.

If you can achieve the same result without enforcing vaccination or laws on those who don’t want that’s preferable.

artyom@piefed.social on 12 Jul 13:11 next collapse

I wouldn’t try to convince you to hate privacy. Honestly I envy you. Being privacy-conscious is increasingly difficult, expensive, and honestly sucks a whole lot.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:45 collapse

Being anti privacy is even worse. I need to keep track of what I share and where. I also need to enable telemetry wherever possible which is time consuming and then I face hate online

extremeboredom@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:17 next collapse

Give me all of your account passwords, right now.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:56 collapse

Nice troll. I use 2FA. I’m assuming you are going to share yours

extremeboredom@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:12 collapse

Why do you use 2FA? You shouldn’t. You don’t like privacy.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:27 collapse

2FA is secure, not private. I still very much like security. |

2FA is open if anything. The standard is open and it makes it safer to share passwords in public

extremeboredom@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:37 collapse

You silly goose. 2FA is protecting the privacy of what’s inside your account. You’re essentially saying “I hate privacy but not actually because I still keep my accounts private.” Very silly. Sorry.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:43 collapse

2FA is protecting access. Data is public

vapeloki@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 13:43 next collapse

The first thing the Nazis did when they marched into the Netherlands, the took the religious information from the citizens register to deport all Jews.

Oppressive regimes are using information to track down dissidents and let them vanish.

If you want to blast out every detail of your life, be m guest.

But forcing your idea of life and safety down everyone’s throught is not the way to go.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:21 collapse

Notice how that was possible because they could access those informations in secret

vapeloki@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 15:04 collapse

They did not make any secret our of it. China does not make a secret our of it. The US no longer makes a secret out of it.

What?

voxel@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:01 next collapse

Another way to think about this whole privacy debate is something I see way too rarely in non-European and English-speaking communities: data protection. Sometimes you don’t care if others know this or that, but knowledge is power, and knowledge about you is power over you.

Example: An employer might not employ you because they find out that you have mental health issues. In Germany, an employer cannot legally request this information, but if you were transparent about it from the beginning, you might have a hard time finding a job.

de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recht_auf_Lüge

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:24 collapse

The employer should have the right to make their decision knowing everything about the “product”

voxel@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:31 collapse

Can you provide anything factual that supports this statement?

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:34 collapse

We assume capitalistic model of economy is good (nobody is making a transaction that doesn’t benefit them on a net benefit basis, therefore all transactions provide net benefit to the society).

To make a correct decision, both sides should have as much informations about what they’re acquiring. Therefore more informations=better

voxel@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:04 next collapse

Also, don’t feel down because of the downvotes; some people are apparently afraid of “(…) polite and fruitful discussion” and would rather suppress opinions they disagree with.

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:25 collapse

Maybe on reddit. On lemmy there’s no karma and if I’m convinced I would have to dispose of this account anyway

skyline2@lemmy.dbzer0.com on 12 Jul 14:23 next collapse

This ideology only works in a world where authority as a concept doesn’t exist. If humanity ever achieves a global anarchist utopia, then you can try this idea out.

Until then, those with less power benefit immensely from hiding their identity from those with great power. Today, people in many nations live under increasingly invasive surveillance. This surveillance serves to prevent them from reacting to their material conditions (labor organizing, protesting, any sort of resistance).

I think you might agree that anything that prevents a person from adapting to changing material conditions is a bad thing. It creates a life of suffering and oppression that is inescapable. Privacy mitigates this by allowing the oppressed to resist this effect without experiencing the retaliation of the oppressors.

In summary, the need for privacy exists as a hedge against authoritarianism. If humanity manages to organize in such a way where that is no longer a problem, THEN this conversation might be more interesting.

Augmented1207@feddit.org on 12 Jul 14:45 collapse

I disagree but like the discourse

garbage_world@lemmy.world on 12 Jul 14:56 collapse

Enjoy